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  • Unseen Work
    I love what I do. But there are definitely parts of my job that I don’t enjoy. I’ve always been relational. That’s how God wired me.  I genuinely enjoy talking with people, hearing their stories, and learning about what’s going on in their lives. In fact, I can often remember details from conversations months or even years later – even though I can’t always remember what my wife told me ten seconds ago! (Devon still loves me though thank goodness lol) As I look back over my career, the common thread has always been people. Whether I was meeting customers face-to-face, talking on the phone, or helping clients today as a mortgage advisor, my greatest success has always come through relationships. I love those parts of my job! What I don’t always love are the tasks. Since I haven’t yet scaled my business to the point of having a full-time assistant, many of the day-to-day responsibilities still fall on me. Renaming documents after they’re uploaded into our system. Sending authorization forms through DocuSign. Updating records. Tracking activity logs. None of those tasks are particularly exciting.  They’re repetitive. They’re mundane.  And sometimes they’re the last things I want to do. A Real Christian Businessman knows God didn’t call us to only do the work we enjoy.  He didn’t design us to chase only the exciting assignments while avoiding the necessary ones.  Many times, the tasks we enjoy most are only possible because we’re willing to faithfully complete the tasks we enjoy least. The unseen work makes the visible work possible.
    “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men.” Coll 3:23 (KJV)
    Notice the verse didn’t say to work heartily only when the task is exciting.  It didn’t say to work heartily only when people are watching. It said whatsoever ye do. That includes the spreadsheets. The paperwork. The follow-up.  The preparation.  The administrative tasks nobody notices. Remember that people are watching how we handle all of our responsibilities – not just the enjoyable ones. Let our attitude this week during the mundane tasks shine just as brightly as it does during the exciting ones.
  • Good Ole Days
     
    “Do not say, ‘Why were the old days better than these?’ for it is not wise to ask such a question.” Ecc 7:10 (NIV)
    How big is our rearview mirror in our car?! How big is the windshield in our car?! Looking back is good for a glance, but we always need to be looking forward to what is coming up!
  • Stand Firm

    Recently I had a loan close that went sideways at the very end. The process itself had gone smoothly. We were clear to close. Everything looked good.  Then, during final balancing between our funder and the title company – literally one day before closing – something changed.

    My client was suddenly going to be charged an extra $1,000.

    Not exactly the phone call I want to make 24 hours before closing.

    This was also a brand-new client relationship and a new real estate agent relationship that had already produced two additional referrals during the transaction.  So if I called my client and told him he needed another thousand dollars, yes, we probably would have closed…

    But there was a very real chance I would damage future trust and future business in the process.

    So I started digging.

    After researching it, I discovered something important: this wasn’t caused by me. It wasn’t caused by my team. It appeared to be some type of system issue that wasn’t caught until the final hour.

    So I called my VP.

    We talked through options, and after some healthy discussion, the conversation turned toward me potentially covering the cost out of my commission.

    That surprised me.

    I pushed back. Respectfully – but firmly.

    I explained that I was fully prepared to own this if it had been my mistake or my team’s mistake. But this wasn’t that.

    Something had gone wrong somewhere inside the organization, and absorbing that loss out of an already slim commission was a hard pill to swallow.  We ended the conversation with him saying he would look into it, though he wasn’t optimistic anything could be done.

    Then came the good news.

    The company covered it.

    The cost was absorbed because it was determined to be an error that wasn’t tied to anyone’s fault. In fact, they still don’t fully know how it happened.

    A Real Christian Businessman understands two truths that must live together:
    Take responsibility for what is yours.
    Stand firm when something isn’t.

    I was prepared to accept the hit if this had been my mistake. That’s part of leadership. Sometimes doing right by the client costs you money.

    But there’s also a time to respectfully hold your ground.

    Not arrogantly.
    Not defensively.

    Just honestly.

    Because accountability matters – but so does fairness.

    “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Josh 1:9 (NIV)

    Being strong and courageous doesn’t always mean charging ahead.

    Sometimes it means having the difficult conversation.
    Standing firm under pressure.
    And being prepared to do the right thing regardless of how it turns out.

  • Keep It Calm

    ““For a man’s anger does not bring about the righteous  life that God desires”. James 1:20 (NV)

    If we can keep our temper low, good things will happen!
     
    When my stress level is high it’s harder for me to do this than at other times. 

    But I gotta keep tryin’!

  • Don’t Take It Personal

    I recently closed a loan that I thought would never close. 

    Not because I couldn’t get it done…
    But because the client kept switching lenders in the middle of the transaction.

    I first picked up the file after she had already been denied by another lender. She was under contract and had less than 20 days left to close when she came to me.

    So my team and I went to work!   We pushed the file to the top of the priority list. Worked hard. Moved quickly. Explored every option possible.

    But eventually we hit a wall.

    Her debt-to-income ratio just didn’t work. I tried different programs that I had available, and we still couldn’t make it happen.  That’s when she switched lenders again.

    And that bothered me.

    While I was still trying to figure out a different loan solution for her, she was already shopping somewhere else. After all the time, effort, and energy we had invested, it felt personal.

    So I wrote the deal off and moved on (kinda – it still hurt!).

    Then something unexpected happened.

    Lender number three didn’t work out either… and she came back to me.  But this time, I approached things differently.

    I stayed professional.
    Kept communication strong.
    Worked the process.

    But emotionally, I kept my distance because I fully expected her to leave again.

    Still – we kept moving forward.  And eventually… we got it done.

    At the closing table, she looked right at me and thanked me sincerely. She told me no one else had shown her that level of care and commitment, and that without my help she wouldn’t have ever gotten the house.

    And in that moment, it reminded me of something important.

    A Real Christian Businessman can’t allow hurt feelings to dictate how we treat people.  That’s hard for me sometimes because I’m a “feeler.” I care deeply about people, and when I feel used or overlooked, it can stick with me.

    But business is still business.  And we’re still called to treat people with kindness – even when they don’t return it the same way.

    “A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself.” Prov 11:17 (ESV)


    Kindness isn’t weakness.
    Professionalism isn’t passivity.

    Sometimes it means setting our feelings aside and simply doing the job we were called to do.
    And often, the outcome ends up better than we expected.

    This one certainly did.

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  • Ax

    “If the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed, but skill will bring success.” Ecc 9:10 (NIV) 

    When was the last time you sharpened your ax?  

    It’s a lot harder to get things done when it’s dull isn’t it?!

    Let’s remember to sharpen up from time to time so we don’t end up working so hard – we have the skills yet we have to preserve our strength and be smart about how to use it!

  • Stay Steady

    A job as a advisor can be boring.  I mean – how exciting is it to talk about interest rates and loan terms all day with people? I do everything I can to make the process smooth and stress-free for my clients… but “fun”? That’s a stretch.

    It’s not like when I worked in the music industry. Back then, there was always something exciting going on. New Artists just coming on the scene.  Stories to tell. People to introduce. Energy.

    People react a little differently when you’re introducing them to the lead singer of an up and coming band versus explaining the parts to their monthly mortgage payment. 

    But here’s what I’ve learned:  

    Success in the Mortgage Business isn’t built on excitement.

    It’s built on consistency.

    -Consistent calls to past clients so you stay top of mind.
    -Consistent communication with referral partners – not just asking for business, but adding value.
    -Consistent follow-up with leads.
    -Consistent updates to clients under contract.

    Day after day.
    Week after week.
    Nothing flashy.
    Just steady.

    And yes-it can feel repetitive.

    But a Real Christian Businessman understands this truth: the “boring” work is often the most important work.

    Because if we don’t prepare…  If we don’t follow up…  If we don’t stay disciplined in the small things…

    It shows.

    You can’t skip writing the sermon and expect to deliver a great message.
    You can’t skip researching a guest for your upcoming podcast and expect the interview to go well.
    You can’t skip preparing to give a presentation at a meeting and expect it to go off without a hitch.

    Consistency is what separates those who last from those who fade.

    “Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.” 1  Cor 15:58 (ESV)


    So this week, let’s not chase excitement – but instead chase consistency.

    Let’s make the calls.
    Let’s send the follow-ups.
    Let’s do the small things well.

    Even when it feels repetitive.

    Because what feels “boring” today…

    is often what builds something great tomorrow.

  • Favorites

    “Then Peter began to speak: ‘I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism’ Acts 10:34 (NIV)

    Aren’t we so fortunate that God doesn’t show partiality towards us? 

    I mean, He doesn’t judge us based on nationality, race, status, political affiliation – or even if someone is a believer in Him or not!

    Sounds like an example we need to show to others doesn’t’ it?!

  • Just Go

    Last week I attended a one-day sales, training, and marketing workshop here in Nashville.

    It was led by someone I highly respect in the mortgage industry – someone who works for a different lender – and most of the people there were from her company.

    It was great!

    I learned a lot.  Took away several things I can implement immediately.  I walked away sharper, more focused, and more motivated.

    But I almost didn’t go.

    Not because I was busy.
    Not because I couldn’t make it work.

    I was scared.

    I didn’t know anyone going.
    It was filled with top producers. People doing way more volume than me.

    I told myself, “I don’t belong in that room.”

    Even though I respected the leader… I still hesitated.

    My wife encouraged me to go.
    My schedule was completely open that day.

    Still – I didn’t commit.

    I even messaged the host directly on Instagram and told her my concerns. She encouraged me to come. She told me I had the right mindset and needed to be around people ahead of me.

    That should have been enough.

    It wasn’t.

    Then I reached out to someone I had heard on one of her podcasts recently. I wasn’t even planning to go – I just wanted 15 minutes of his time to learn from him before the event if he was going to be in town.

    He told me he wasn’t attending… but encouraged me to go anyway.

    Still didn’t sign up.

    Then the next day, he called me.
    Out of the blue.

    We talked for 45 minutes. He connected me with a colleague who had an extra ticket that was attending. That colleague called me. We talked.

    And finally… I said yes.

    And I’m so glad I did!

    You see, a Real Christian Businessman knows that growth doesn’t happen in comfort.  It happens when you step into rooms where you feel outmatched.  It happens when you surround yourself with people ahead of you.  It happens when you’re willing to be uncomfortable long enough to learn something new.

    That room challenged me, pushed me, and made me better.

    And it gave me tools I can use right now to grow my business.

    Fear almost kept me from all of that.

    But fear is a liar!

    “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Josh 1:9 (ESV)

    So as you go about your week, maybe do something that makes you uncomfortable.

    Go to the meeting.
    Make the call.
    Get in the room.

    Stop waiting until you feel ready.

    Because growth isn’t found in comfort.

    Sometimes the best thing you can do…

    is just go.

  • Today’s The Day

    He is Risen!
     
    Enough said. 🙂

    “He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay.” Matt 28:6 (NIV)